Why do relationships have to be so hard?

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Are your relationships painful?

Here’s why

Relationships come at a great cost for many of us. We become alienated, separated & dissociated from our own true self just because we want to feel loved and we are willing to sacrifice our boundaries, desires and needs to feel that deep connection to another person.
But no matter how much we give in a relationship with another person, relationships remain painful.

We will continue to feel alienated in relationships (romantic or not) until we focus on the core problem: our need to feel safe in relationships.

Because we seek safety, our adult relationships are emotionally unhealthy.

  • We fail to develop true intimacy with one another.
  • ​We tell other people how they should and shouldn’t feel.
  • ​We call people who display emotions sensitive. 
  • We dismiss each other’s emotions.
  • ​We disapprove of each other’s feelings.
  • ​We see emotions and feelings as weakness.
  • We have a difficult time considering the emotional needs of others and feel like no one considers ours either. 

We hurt because of what we know about love.

People suffer because of the many misconceptions we have about love. Because of this, we often think that we are loving when we are, in fact, not being loving.

Love isn't about compromising or sacrificing.

It isn't selfless, and it's not about approval.

It can't be love if parts of you are rejected, even if it's good to hear, "I love you even though you are [difficult/an addict/fat/thin/and so on]."

When you drop the conditioning, you can re-frame your relationships through the lenses of a newly earned awareness.

And so, you will discover why your relationships have been painful in the past and why it has been hard for you to connect with others.

With this new perspective, you will suddenly understand why you seem to have been attracted to the most incompatible partners possible.

And just like that, you discover that loneliness is not your destiny.

Here’s where to start:

Teal’s Relationship Vault:
The ultimate collection of exclusive teachings on love, compatibility, and connection guides you toward better relationships of every kind…

This is an ever-growing collection of all of Teal's exclusive teachings on relationships. Use this wealth of relationship advice to identify and break through toxic relationship patterns, heal trauma and begin to manifest deep, meaningful connections.

It contains teachings shared with live audiences during Synchronization workshops, live Q&A events, interviews and podcasts, mirror events, and more.

You can have you and others too.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could have healthier, happier, stronger relationships without hiding who you are, making sacrifices, or violating your boundaries? Here’s what you can expect to learn with your lifetime access to the Relationship Vault
Identify your toxic relationship patterns and learn how to change them
See your fears and traumas in a new light and become more in tune with your emotions and desires
Understand why partners and others in your life act “baffling” and what you can do about it
Experience teachings that increase your awareness so you can become a vibrational match for fulfilling and lasting relationships
Learn how to spot incompatibility so you’ll never find yourself in relationships with people, who push you away, shame or reject you for who you are
Identify red flags in relationships so you can avoid entering toxic dynamics, including mates that are not right for you.
Learn the why behind feeling stuck in relationships that make you miserable so you can breathe free again
Discover how to heal past wounds so you can heal your present and future relationships
Become honest with yourself about your internal truth, including your personal preferences, feelings, thoughts, wants, needs, and dislikes

You deserve to be happy, fulfilled, and loved - and it all starts with YOU.

Gain awareness of what keeps you stuck in toxic relationship patterns so you can improve all of your present and future relationships without losing who you are anymore.
  • When you know what you need and desire in a relationship, you can begin to attract people into your life who are compatible with you on that level.
  • ​When you know what you need and desire in a relationship, you can begin to attract people into your life who are compatible with you on that level.
  • And when you're honest with yourself about your needs and truths, you'll be able to find others who are also honest and authentic. 

So start living according to your own terms today, and see how it transforms the quality of your relationships.

Start your journey today

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Your subconscious definition of love is sabotaging every relationship you have

As a child, you got the first taste of love from how you felt in your relationship with your parents.

If your life growing up felt chaotic, or you experienced frequent conflict and deception, it's likely that your subconscious mind has adopted those experiences as part of its definition of love.

On a conscious level, you may think you’re attracted to partners who make you feel good, but your subconscious mind is actually attracted to people who fit your subconscious definition of love, even if that definition is setting you up for pain.

So this is how it works: if love equals home and home equals abandonment, then love equals abandonment.
As a result, you may find yourself attracted to partners who also create a feeling of chaos, confusion, and loneliness.

Fortunately, it is possible to improve your relationships by changing the way you think about love.

By becoming aware of the link between your past experiences and your current beliefs about love, you can start to break the cycle of attracting the wrong people into your life and begin to attract people who will make you feel the way you deserve to feel: loved, cherished and safe.

Start to gain awareness of how you’re attracting painful relationships and what you can do to break the pattern of incompatibility

Start your journey today
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Let your intuition guide you

The content in the Relationship Vault can be a great source of guidance and inspiration, but
only if you let it. When you're feeling lost or uncertain about missing the meaningful
relationships you desire, remember you have the Relationship Vault to guide you. And you
might just find the answer you're looking for.

Or follow the roadmap

Relationships are hard. Anyone who's been in one knows that it takes a lot of work to make it last. There are countless books and articles on the subject, but sometimes it's hard to know where to start. That's where the Relationship Vault comes in.

It's a curated collection of the best advice on relationships, organized in an easy-to-view way. Whether you're having trouble with (in)compatibility, boundaries, attracting a mate, understanding your partner's behavior or something else, you'll find what you're looking for in the Relationship Vault.

And because it's organized so well, you won't have to sift through thousands of videos to find the advice you need.

And find support

Being a Relationship Vault member gives you access to a lot of exclusive relationship content that you won't find on YouTube. But it also gives you the opportunity to connect with other members who are going through the same thing as you.

If you're watching one of the Relationship Vault videos and something comes up for you, don't hesitate to reach out for support in our private Facebook community. There, you'll find people who understand what you're going through and who can offer guidance and advice. So take advantage of this great resource and join the conversation today.

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Pain and loneliness are not your destiny. So many of us go through life feeling isolated and alone, even when we're in relationships. We might stay in a job we hate because it's what's expected of us, or remain in a relationship that's no longer serving us because we're afraid of being alone.
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But what if you could live according to your own values, desires, needs, and truths and not end up alone?

It's possible to create deeply satisfying relationships with people who are so compatible with you that you never feel isolated or alone again. But it starts with learning to love and respect yourself enough to set boundaries and live in alignment with your own truth. When you do that, you'll start attracting people into your life who are on the same wavelength as you—people who will support and cherish you for who you are. 

But what if you could live according to your own values, desires, needs, and truths and not end up alone?

Being a Relationships Vault member gives you access to a lot of exclusive relationship content that you won't find on YouTube. But it also gives you the opportunity to connect with other members who are going through the same thing as you.

If you're watching one of the Relationships Vault videos and something comes up for you, don't hesitate to reach out for support in our private Facebook community. There, you'll find people who understand what you're going through and who can offer guidance and advice. So take advantage of this great resource and join the conversation today.
Here’s how to use the Relationship Vault:

Imagine this: 

You’re in a romantic relationship but something is off
First…
Learn about the type of partners you’re attracted to and how those relationships never really fulfill your needs
Then you can explore the many different obstacles that come up in your relationships and what you can do break them down
And then you can explore the many different ways in which you can improve any relationship you have by improving the relationship with yourself:

So if you're tired of feeling isolated and alone, make the decision today to start living according to your own truth.

It just might be the best decision you ever make..
Start your journey today.
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Your life here on this planet will only be as good as the quality of your relationships.

As humans, we are social creatures. We thrive when we have strong, supportive relationships. Conversely, our lives can be quite difficult when our relationships are not going well. This is why it is so important to put effort into developing and maintaining the quality of our relationships.
As humans, we are social creatures. We thrive when we have strong, supportive relationships. Conversely, our lives can be quite difficult when our relationships are not going well. This is why it is so important to put effort into developing and maintaining the quality of our relationships.

It is crucial to remember that relationships take work. They require time, effort, and communication. But the rewards are more than worth it. When our relationships are strong, we are happier and more fulfilled individuals.

It is my promise that developing your awareness as to how it is possible to improve your relationship without losing who you are is going to make all the difference in the world. All it takes is curiosity to get started.
Teal Swan's teachings invite people to step fully into their authenticity, knowing that this will bring about the positive change that we want to see in the world.

Teal Swan is an international speaker and teacher committed to surmounting human suffering. She was born with a range of extrasensory abilities and is a survivor of severe childhood abuse. Today she uses her gifts as well as her own harrowing life experience to inspire millions of people towards authenticity, freedom and joy and teaching people how to transform their emotional, mental, physical and spiritual pain.

She is the creator of the popular "Ask Teal" YouTube series, author of six internationally published books, and the artist of hundreds of frequency paintings.

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Before you go ahead and decide that loneliness is better than risking rejection, frustration or getting hurt…

Unlock the gates of love by breaking through relationship misconceptions, fears
and toxic patterns…

So you can begin to manifest deep meaningful connections, break the seal of loneliness, and become a match for relationships that are transformational, instead of just okay.
Feel confident about standing up for your needs
Become attuned to your emotions and desires
which makes it easier to ask for what you need
Prevent toxic emotional scenarios simply by spotting the tell signs of incompatibility and trauma in others
Manifest new people and relationships that don’t make you feel inferior and constantly afraid of ending up alone

Relationship Vault gives you access to all of Teal’s teachings on healing relationship trauma, fixing incompatibility and developing healthy relationships without losing yourself

Claim your lifetime access today to access content that will teach you how to

Feel safe in your relationships

There is nothing that damages relationships or your life experience in general, more so than fear. And there's not a single human being incarnated on this planet that does not have some kind of fear relative to relationships.

This is why most people are confused about exactly how to create a safe relationship. So to avoid the pain of uncertainty and potential loneliness, many people will either stay stuck in toxic relationships or believe that loneliness is better than connection.

You first need to feel safe with yourself, before you can expect safety in a relationship. When you know who you are and what you need, that clarity will reflect in how your relationships unfold, romantic or not.

Heal trauma patterns in your relationships

There are no bigger mirrors in this universe than our relationships. If you had an unhealthy 
situation in your upbringing relative to love, you are very likely to continue to find yourself in the 
same circumstance again and again.

It’s going to reflect in your friendships, family connections, work dynamics and romantic 
relationships. Until you break free from those trauma patterns, your relationships will continue 
to mirror those past experiences in one way or another.

Break the cycle of incompatible partners

When you ask the universe to provide you with a partner it’s not enough to just say “I want to be with Joe”. Yes, the universe has a lot of resources to draw from. We’re more than 7 billion people on Earth. But when you make it specific to one person, you're causing the universe to have to come through a point that is as big as this straw.

Even if it does bring you what you’ve asked for, it might turn out that Joe isn’t the best partner for you. We've all gotten to this point where we think that our happiness can only be satisfied by this one person that we keep dreaming about, that we're totally obsessed with, but then you discover that it’s not a person but a type of person that can meet your needs.

So by learning about incompatibility and discovering what you truly need and desire, you will break the cycle of incompatible partners.

Ask for what you want and need without 
fearing abandonment

One of the most beneficial steps you can take in relationships is to accept that we form relationships because of our needs and desires. We seek to establish a symbiosis whereby the relationship is mutually beneficial. And every relationship is a potential symbiosis. Every relationship offers different needs and lends to our desires.

People want to love you. They just don't know how. And unless you tell them what you want and need, you're not going to get anywhere. You're just going to build up a lot of resentment relative to relationships. You will build up extreme levels of resilience and even though you will remain committed to being in a relationship, you will feel unsatisfied for the rest of your life.

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Romantic relationships are not all there is

The biggest problem is that many people see romantic partnership as the only relationship that promises to meet our needs… The only one that will make us happy. The only one in which we can feel secure and establish a sense of guarantee.

As a result, we fail to recognize and we devalue all of the other forms of relationships around us, as well as the plentitude of resources that each one offers us. This causes us to obsessively hunt for our romantic partner as if this relationship is all that matters to us.

And then we put all the pressure on that other person to be the one to meet all of our needs, which is impossible. No one person can meet all of your needs. So it is a set up for disappointment and pain.

Every person (including you) and every type of relationship has so much value to provide. Each one is a powerful resource for something. The question is… Can you recognize that value? Can you recognize that resource? And can you be nourished by it?

Unlock the gates of the universe

The law of attraction is managing and bringing you together with the relationships that serve your expansion. The very most for the moment that you're in this means you can trust the universe to align you with someone who is a fabulous match to all your positive aspects and also a fabulous match to all your not so positive.
Gain awareness of what keeps you stuck in toxic relationship patterns so you 
can improve all of your present and future relationships without losing who 
you are anymore.

Start your journey today

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This is likely not your first time trying to figure out a way to improve your relationships. And you're probably skeptical about this, and you should be.
 
There is a lot of fluff advice and teachings out there that only make the situation worse by teaching you how to mask or ignore your pain.

This is not the case. But I completely understand if you're hesitant to try something without knowing what you're getting first. That's why the Relationship Vault comes with a 5-day money back guarantee.

If for any reason you don't find the Relationship Vault helpful, or if it doesn't live up to your expectations, just let my team know at support@tealswan.com and we'll refund your investment.

Empower yourself with the knowledge to strengthen every relationship in your life without hiding who you are

Here’s what you get when you unlock lifetime access to the Relationship Vault today

  • Teal Swan’s entire library of exclusive relationship teachings (11+ hours)
  • ​New content added regularly in the form of Ask Teal, Daily Updates, Meditations, workshop moments and more
  • ​Access to a safe and private community of like-minded brave truth-seekers and inner work enthusiasts
  • ​Easy to access from any device
  • ​​100% unconditional money back guarantee in the first 5 days
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The most self-loving thing a person can do…

…is to allow themselves to accept themselves fully, empower themselves by meeting their own needs and finding people whose happiness is served by meeting the needs they cannot meet on their own.

Only then, we can become the living embodiment of oneness.

That is the opposite of what people in the world do today.

We try to become self-sufficient and a fulfilled unit in and of ourselves. But that keeps us alienated, frustrated and isolated. If we do not allow ourselves to line up with our deepest desires we defy our expansion.

And we desire love, connection, support, closeness, intimacy.

So, we need to expand our idea of relationships beyond what it is today to really tap into the powerful healing potential of interpersonal connection.

Every relationship is a potential symbiosis. Every relationship offers different needs and lends to our desires, creating the means for your personal evolution.

And your life here on this planet will only be as good as the quality of your relationships.

That is the ultimate mission of the Relationship Vault. 

To give you the tools and guidance to break through the guise of what love is and isn’t, so you can heal your relationship trauma, see beyond fear and begin to attract meaningful relationships with others, romantic and beyond.
And here’s where to start:

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