People suffer because of the many misconceptions we have about love. Because of this, we often think that we are loving when we are, in fact, not being loving.
Love isn't about compromising or sacrificing.
It isn't selfless, and it's not about approval.
It can't be love if parts of you are rejected, even if it's good to hear, "I love you even though you are [difficult/an addict/fat/thin/and so on]."
When you drop the conditioning, you can re-frame your relationships through the lenses of a newly earned awareness.
And so, you will discover why your relationships have been painful in the past and why it has been hard for you to connect with others.
With this new perspective, you will suddenly understand why you seem to have been attracted to the most incompatible partners possible.
And just like that, you discover that loneliness is not your destiny.